December 31st, 2019

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Tw rape culture ,periods, ignorant males

Tw/cw. r*pe/murder culture, ignorant sunfish, death of friends, Periods, My rage of a thousand fucking suns . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . My boyfriend's best friend is over and for whatever fucking reason he brought up how he doesnt think rape culture is real..or he does followed by whatever excuse he gave I couldnt hear it through my immediate rage. And how the murders/rape is less in america than other countries (like that would matter even if it was true)..and I'm like screaming and crying violently at him and that it is so real and how I see it every day in the groups im in . And how I live it and around it every fucking day. And then my bf agreeing with me but also bringing up how im extra emotional from my period to which I raged out on him too..How the fuck is my period affecting the women who are already being murdered every fucking day. I know he was just trying to defuse the situation cause its after 2am and I'm yelling but he needs to think about his fucking word choices. I rage screamed at them and then went in the bedroom and then my bf has been consistently apologizing and saying how he wasnt trying to invalidate my feelings. His bff apologized too. But then explained how his ex has been raped and how he has a full understanding (fucking eyeroll) of how it affects people and how his experiences have made him think this way. And I was straight up like dude, you're fucking wrong. LISTEN TO WOMEN. I kept repeating that at him/them. Just because they don't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I listen to a lot of stupid sunfish bullshit they say that I dont comment on ..but this is important. This happens to all of us literally every day. Women are scared for their fucking lives every single day. It hurts my fucking heart every single day. And while I may be extra emotional because of my period and the fact a good woman who I loved died today. We will never feel completely safe ever in our lives in this world and most sunfish still don't fucking get it.

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